What the Party's Friendships Reveal About Them - and About Us
Become an armchair psychologist. Analyze why relationships matter in Final Fantasy VII Remake and Rebirth — and why certain pairings resonate with you. This is not about which relationship is best. It's about why certain connections unlock meaning, identity, and emotion.
February 2026
AeriTh & Tifa
By Fastestthe 1
I love both Aerith and Tifa. Both are strong heroines in their own ways and play major roles in
saving both Cloud and the planet. Likewise, I love their friendship, with how much they trust
and lean on each other. Or at least that’s how I felt in Remake and Rebirth, as the original game
initially left me with a very different impression.
When I played the original Final Fantasy VII for the first time in 2020, one of my hopes was that
Tifa and Aerith would be portrayed as friends. For a large part of the story, however, I
questioned if they even liked each other. While I don’t blame the developers for Tifa and Aerith
having few interactions given the constraints, the ones they do have seem to fluctuate from
friendly banter to a rivalry for Cloud’s affection. Perhaps some of this was due to a possible bias
in the original English translation.
Ultimately, I did decide that Tifa and Aerith were friends. But this happened too little too late:
the realization came shortly after Aerith’s untimely demise. If Tifa is in the party, she will kneel
down beside the Cetra, gently placing a hand on her cheek before running offscreen crying. That
simple act of affection did more than any conversation in the story to convey how the two truly
felt about each other. It made me want to go back to the beginning with this new knowledge to
properly see them as friends instead of rivals.
However, it appears I wasn’t the only one who received mixed signals about their relationship.
One programmer told Nojima shortly after the completion of Final Fantasy VII that, “It sure
seems like Aerith and Tifa don’t like each other, don’t you think?” Nojima was shocked by this
but reflected on it, and realized he didn’t do well in portraying their friendship. So when the
Remake project started, he made it a point to properly show how close Aerith and Tifa truly are.
And the results are amazing!
Partway through Remake, Aerith and Tifa meet for the first time, despite their situation of being
in Corneo’s basement making it far less than ideal. After the audition, the two women are then
escorted to a side room filled with Coreno’s lackeys. What came next made me giddy with
delight: not only did Tifa and Aerith swiftly take out all the men, they complemented and high-
fived each other after. Within minutes of meeting, a friendship was already forming! And their
relationship only grew stronger.
By the next few chapters, Aerith and Tifa were already comforting and encouraging each other.
They plan a shopping trip, help each other out, and Tifa is notably the one who pulls Aerith out
when she is tormented by the circling Whispers. It’s not long before they’re confining their
troubles and secrets with each other, particularly regarding Cloud and his strange behavior.
By the time of Rebirth, it’s very apparent that the two women are the closest individuals in the
party. Sometimes Aerith and Tifa would team up to tease Cloud, or both would confront him
when he says something in poor taste. Evidently, they even told each other what they knew
about Zack, as seen when Tifa asks Aerith if she learned anything after speaking with Zack’s
parents. Later, when Cloud does have a brief (albeit incorrect) recollection of Zack, Tifa insists
she tells Aerith about it, not only to avoid the unnecessary confliction of events, but because,
“she and I are close, you know?”
When Aerith is unfortunately killed at the end of Rebirth, none are more so affected by her loss
than Tifa. Tifa is the first to reach Aerith’s side after the Jenova fight and the last to leave after
the unseen burial, her deep sadness rendering her speechless. If Aerith’s death broke my heart,
Tifa’s reaction shattered it into a million pieces.
Outside of media tailored specifically to female audiences, friendships between women can often
feel artificial, especially if a potential love triangle in involved. Despite the initial fear that the
original Final Fantasy VII fell into this pitfall, I’m glad that the Remake series went out of their
way to show a genuine friendship between Aerith and Tifa. As a woman myself, I’m happy to
see a close relationship between these two wonderful characters, and hope that they may serve as
an inspiration for many more friendships like this.
Source:
Wood, A. (2024, March 8). Final Fantasy 7 writer “regretted” parts of the original JRPG and
saw Rebirth and Remake as a chance to “properly portray Aerith and Tifa’s friendship.”
GamesRadar+. https://www.gamesradar.com/final-fantasy-7-writer-regretted-parts-of-the-
original-jrpg-and-saw-rebirth-and-remake-as-a-chance-to-properly-portray-aerith-and-tifas-
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“Cloud and Sephiroth – Identically DIfferent”
By MsMoon
Although this concept is well explored in fiction, what I find fascinating is how connected
the relationship between Cloud and Sephiroth is. How they understand aspects of each
other despite being on opposing sides. It’s an understanding that Cloud must fight hard to
resist as Sephiroth uses it to exploit and manipulate him throughout the Remake trilogy,
more than he ever did in the original because he “knows” Cloud now.
When people are faced with someone in their lives that they view as an opposer, it’s quick
to dismiss what they think and feel thus we’ll treat them in an adversarial way. There are
many reasons as to why that may be the case, such as Sephiroth destroying Cloud and
Tifa’s hometown and killing their parents. But at the same time these opposing forces can
reveal deeper truths about ourselves that we would not otherwise have noticed or are
willing to accept. I believe these relationships can give us an opportunity to grow and reach
a more honest version of who we are.
I’ll cite just a few examples. They’re both under the influence of Jenova and we witness that
by how they work to find their identity, sifting through the many manipulations exhibited by
her. When Cloud talks to Tifa about feeling like there are diƯerent people inside of him,
Sephiroth can especially relate as he fights to break away from Jenova’s influence and
recognizes the same in Cloud, constantly referring to him as a “puppet” with no emotions
of his own.
At the Edge of Creation, Sephiroth oƯers Cloud a chance to join him in defying destiny and
participate in his plans in restructuring the Lifestream to reshape reality in his image, giving
credence to his idea of “forever”. Temping Cloud with the idea that he wouldn’t have to
experience the pain of loss and the inability to save those he cares about; The same way he
experienced it throughout his backstory in Ever Crisis. As we approach the conclusion,
Cloud may have to come to a decision, an acceptance that will decide the fate of the entire
trilogy.
Lastly, well-intentioned loved ones can perceive us in a certain way or may do things
thinking that they’re being helpful and doing it out of love but may be hindering you. Tifa
may have been guilty of such actions in FFVII OG by not admitting what she remembered of
the Nibelheim incident to Cloud sooner as she wanted to protect him and was concerned
about his fragile mental state. Sephiroth on the other hand, was able to tell Cloud the truth
straight away. Sometimes our adversaries don’t always have to lie and manipulate us but
can tell certain truths that others closest to us may think we’re not ready for yet.
Through FFVII, the compilation, and the Remake trilogy, Cloud has been painfully aware of
his perceived weaknesses for most of his life and through his interactions with Sephiroth,
even more so. But despite that, his clashes with Sephiroth gave him the chance to prove to
himself time and time again that he is stronger than he realizes and that he’s not just the
boy who couldn’t make it into SOLDIER or who couldn’t save anyone. He derives inner
strength from his relationships with his friends and uses it to rise from the despair that
Sephiroth could never learn to do himself.
Protagonist/antagonist relationships are not always just to define who’s morally right or
wrong, they’re often a reflection of each other. A revelation of character and who we
choose to become because of those interactions, and these two characters do an excellent
job of exemplifying that.
Cloud and Dio - When Identity Crisis Meets Genuineness
By Smithianum
As the FFVII cast becomes fully a team throughout the journey of Final Fantasy VII Rebirth, they
become more able and eager to support each other when one of them starts to falter. It’s why they rally in
Barret’s defense at the Gold Saucer, and why Cait Sith’s turn towards the end hits them so hard. It’s also
why the team continues to stand by Cloud through his many painful manipulations by Sephiroth, even as
they try to understand what is happening with his memories. Cloud himself knows something is not right
with his mind, and they all struggle to understand who he is through their shared relationships. A glimpse
of the real Cloud, however, shines out from an unlikely crack when Cloud encounters the flamboyant and
sculpted alpha Dio, director of the Gold Saucer.
On first arrival at the Saucer, Dio challenges Cloud to a duel in the 3D Brawler. Cloud obviously
wants nothing to do with it, but his reaction upon beating Dio (and granted, the fight can be lost
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) breaks
through his usual stoic mask. As Dio raises his hand in victory, and the crowd cheers, Cloud leans into the
celebrating, playing to the crowd with a bright expression on his face. For the first time in the story, he’s
happy. This may be the first time in many years that Cloud feels validated, not as a SOLDIER or
mercenary or any other role, but as Cloud himself–Cloud as he wants to be.
In this way, Dio functions as an antithesis to Sephiroth. Dio is very much a self-made man,
having built himself physically and professionally. He’s also confidently himself; his outward expression
matches his inner disposition. Sephiroth, on the other hand, is built by alien cells, a magic sword, and a
corporate propaganda machine, and even he knew nothing about him was real. With Dio, what you see is
what you get; with Sephiroth, all is shadows and doubt.
Cloud, like many other young men from his town, wanted to join SOLDIER and become a hero
like Sephiroth. Not only did that not happen, he was betrayed by his hero in the worst way possible. That
unmet desire for validation, however, combined with his mental confusion continue to make him
vulnerable to manipulation. Yet in his encounters with unabashedly genuine people–Zack in Crisis Core,
Andrea in Remake, and then Dio in Rebirth–we see Cloud being accepted as he is without reservation or
judgment. Similarly to how Zack and Andrea saw something in Cloud and encouraged him to embrace it,
Dio sees Cloud’s capacity for strength and resolve–to “rise to meet” a challenge–and draws it out of him,
even as Sephiroth appears to taunt him to “have your fun while you still have time.”
The relationships built throughout Rebirth as the cast becomes a team serve in part to piece
together the mystery of who Cloud really is. And while the relationship with Dio goes on to become one
of mutual respect between fighters (with Cloud even giving him a firm handshake in the desert), the seeds
planted in the initial invitation give us a glimpse of the real Cloud. Through his genuineness, Dio gives
Cloud a validation he never got from SOLDIER and Sephiroth. And in that moment, the boy from
Nibelheim who wants someone to notice him peeks out for the party to see.
Reference:
Shaw, D. E., “Genuineness: An Overlooked Element in Inviting Behavior,” Journal of Invitational
Theory and Practice, Vol. 10, 2004
1 Even if Cloud loses, the look of disappointment and disgust on his face may be unparalleled.
CLOUD & SEPHIROTH
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Cloud Strife and Sephiroth orbit each other like twin stars born from the same catastrophe, bound by gravity neither chose. Their conflict is not merely the clash of swords or ideologies, but the echo of two responses to the same unbearable wound. In the world of Final Fantasy VII, their relationship becomes a mirror held to humanity itself, reflecting our fear of limitation, our hunger for transcendence, and our quiet struggle to accept the shape of existence as it unfolds beyond our control.
Sephiroth is born as a myth before he is born as a man. He emerges not into childhood but into legend, sculpted by expectation, engineered by forces older and colder than love. He is raised not to belong, but to perform perfection. In him lives the tragedy of a being who learns he was never meant to be human, and who, upon discovering this truth, cannot bear the humiliation of limitation. His descent is not sudden madness, but the slow shattering of a divine illusion. When Sephiroth learns he is the product of manipulation and experimentation, he does not seek reconciliation with his nature. He rejects it entirely. He chooses instead to ascend beyond it.
Sephiroth’s war is not against humanity alone. It is against structure itself. Against the invisible architecture of cause and consequence, memory and identity, birth and death. He seeks to merge worlds, fracture timelines, and rewrite the pattern of existence because he cannot endure the idea that even he must follow a script written by forces beyond his will. His godhood is not born from power, but from defiance. He is trauma transformed into cosmic rebellion. He is the human terror of being shaped by history given a blade long enough to strike at fate itself.
Cloud stands in contrast not as a champion of freedom, but as a testament to inevitability lived through vulnerability. Cloud is not a chosen hero. He is not exceptional by design. He is the byproduct of shame, survival, and fragmented memory. His life unfolds as a chain reaction of influence: his admiration for Sephiroth, his failure to achieve his dreams, the borrowed identity of Zack, the experiments that fracture his mind, the quiet gravitational pull of those who refuse to abandon him. Cloud is not the architect of himself. He is assembled through experience, stitched together by forces internal and external, conscious and unconscious.
And yet, in this assembly lies his meaning.
Where Sephiroth rages against the realization that identity is constructed, Cloud slowly learns to live within it. He discovers that selfhood is not diminished by being shaped, but enriched by it. His relationships with his companions do not weaken him, they define him. Each bond becomes a thread anchoring him to reality when illusion threatens to consume him. He does not overcome destiny by escaping it. He overcomes despair by accepting that he belongs within it.
Their conflict becomes the collision of two interpretations of suffering. Sephiroth interprets suffering as proof that existence itself is flawed, that to be shaped by forces beyond one’s control is intolerable. He seeks transcendence through domination, believing that ultimate power will sever the chains of inevitability. Cloud, however, embodies a quieter revelation. He learns that suffering is not evidence of a broken system, but evidence of participation in it. Pain becomes not a prison, but a connection to the shared condition of being human.
Throughout their encounters, Sephiroth attempts to claim Cloud as his extension, his puppet, his reflection. This is not merely manipulation. It is desperation. Sephiroth needs Cloud to validate his defiance. If Cloud, shaped so heavily by Sephiroth’s actions, were to reject humanity and join him in transcending limitation, it would prove that rebellion against fate is both possible and righteous. Cloud’s existence threatens Sephiroth precisely because Cloud survives trauma without abandoning his humanity. Cloud becomes living evidence that limitation does not negate meaning.
In the Remake trilogy’s expanded framing, this dynamic grows even more tragic. Sephiroth’s attempts to merge realities and fracture timelines resemble a being clawing at the walls of existence itself. He becomes aware of patterns repeating across worlds, and his response is not acceptance, but escalation. Each new attempt to break destiny is another scream against the silence of inevitability. He is a god who cannot bear the possibility that even gods are bound by causality.
Cloud, meanwhile, drifts toward a quieter resolution. His identity, once entirely shaped by Sephiroth’s shadow, begins to stabilize through connection, memory reconstruction, and emotional honesty. His ultimate choice is not to become extraordinary, but to remain human. This is not surrender. It is coherence. Cloud recognizes that his life is not diminished by being shaped by others, by fate, by trauma, or by love. It is defined by them.
The tragedy of Sephiroth and Cloud is that both begin from the same wound: the realization that they were shaped by forces beyond their control. One seeks to shatter the system that shaped him. The other learns to live authentically within it. Their conflict becomes a mythological representation of a fundamental human question: is meaning found in escaping limitation, or in embracing it?
Sephiroth’s path leads toward isolation disguised as transcendence. He seeks to become so powerful that nothing can influence him again, but in doing so, he severs himself from the very connections that make identity possible. Cloud’s path leads toward integration. He allows himself to be influenced, shaped, and supported. He becomes strong not by standing above humanity, but by standing among it.
Their story suggests that destiny is not a cage, but a canvas. Every action, every influence, every relationship becomes a brushstroke contributing to the image of a life. Sephiroth sees the canvas and demands to control the painter. Cloud sees the canvas and chooses to continue painting, even knowing he did not choose the first stroke.
In the end, Cloud and Sephiroth represent two echoes within every human heart. One voice whispers that we are diminished by what shapes us, that true power lies in breaking free from all influence. The other voice speaks more quietly, reminding us that identity is not purity or independence, but coherence born from the countless forces that guide us into becoming who we are.
Sephiroth fights to become infinite and loses himself in the process. Cloud accepts his boundaries and discovers something greater than freedom: belonging.
And perhaps, in that acceptance, lies the most terrifying and beautiful truth of all—that to be human is not to write the universe, but to live honestly within the story it writes through us.
AERITH & CLOUD(Part 2 of 3)
Cloud Strife and Aerith Gainsborough do not collide like enemies. They drift toward each other like two melodies that should never have harmonized, yet somehow do. Their relationship is not built on conflict or rivalry, but on recognition. The fragile, luminous moment when two wounded souls' glimpse in each other something neither fully understands, yet both instinctively trust. Where Cloud and Sephiroth are bound by trauma and defiance, Cloud and Aerith are bound by inevitability softened by tenderness.
Aerith enters Cloud’s life like sunlight entering a ruined cathedral, illuminating the fractures without repairing them. She does not arrive to save him, nor to complete him. She arrives already moving toward a fate she understands more clearly than he ever could. Aerith exists in quiet awareness of the current carrying her forward, while Cloud is still drowning in the illusion that he is steering himself. Their connection becomes the meeting point between acceptance and confusion, serenity and fragmentation, knowing and searching.
Cloud’s identity at the beginning of their relationship is fragile scaffolding built from borrowed memories, suppressed shame, and the lingering shadow of Sephiroth’s influence. He performs competence because he fears exposure. He speaks with confidence because silence might reveal emptiness. He exists as a collection of defensive postures shaped by the chain of events that constructed him. Aerith does not challenge these defenses directly. Instead, she moves around them, gently interacting with the person who exists beneath the performance.
There is something profoundly unsettling in how easily Aerith sees through Cloud, not as a detective exposing a lie, but as someone who recognizes a story still being written. She treats Cloud as if his humanity is already stable, even when he cannot see it himself. In doing so, she offers him something Sephiroth never could: the possibility that he is worthy of connection before he becomes worthy of perfection.
Aerith’s own existence is defined by inevitability. As the last Cetra, she carries the weight of ancestral memory and planetary responsibility, but unlike Sephiroth, she does not rage against this inheritance. She moves with it. Aerith understands, at least intuitively, that her life is shaped by forces older and larger than her individual will. She does not interpret this as imprisonment. She interprets it as purpose. Her acceptance is not passive surrender, but an active participation in the unfolding pattern of existence.
Cloud is drawn to this calm certainty because it represents a form of strength entirely foreign to him. He has learned strength through resistance, suppression, and imitation. Aerith demonstrates strength through openness, vulnerability, and presence. She laughs easily, teases him without cruelty, and insists on engaging with the world’s beauty even as darkness gathers around them. Her joy is not ignorance. It is defiance expressed through gentleness.
Their relationship becomes a study in how humans confront inevitability differently. Cloud struggles against the idea that his life is shaped by trauma and influence. Aerith embraces the reality that her path leads toward sacrifice. Yet she does not approach this destiny with despair. She approaches it with a strange, luminous peace that unsettles Cloud precisely because he senses its finality without understanding its source.
Aerith becomes a stabilizing force within Cloud’s fractured identity, not by reconstructing his memories or correcting his illusions, but by allowing him to experience himself outside of them. When Cloud is with Aerith, he is not the failed SOLDIER, not the puppet of Sephiroth, not the shadow of Zack. He is simply present. Their interactions are filled with awkward silences, small jokes, shared glances, and moments of unspoken emotional clarity. These moments form a fragile sanctuary where Cloud’s authentic self begins to emerge, not through revelation, but through quiet repetition.
There is tragedy embedded in the certainty that Aerith understands more about the direction of their journey than Cloud does. In many interpretations of the narrative, especially within expanded and reimagined continuities, Aerith appears aware that her life is part of a pattern that requires her absence to preserve planetary balance. Her knowledge does not isolate her from others; it deepens her compassion for them. She invests in relationships she knows she cannot keep. She offers warmth she knows she cannot sustain. Her love becomes an act of stewardship rather than possession.
For Cloud, Aerith represents the first experience of connection untouched by expectation or projection. Tifa anchors him to his past. Sephiroth binds him to trauma and identity crisis. Aerith, however, meets him in the uncertain present. She allows Cloud to experience affection that does not demand resolution or transformation. Through her, Cloud learns that relationships do not exist to fix broken people, but to accompany them as they navigate their brokenness.
Their relationship carries a deeper philosophical resonance concerning destiny and acceptance. Aerith embodies the possibility that knowing one’s fate does not eliminate meaning. She demonstrates that value can exist precisely because time is finite and direction is inevitable. Her life suggests that the beauty of existence is not diminished by its predetermined structure, but intensified by it. Each laugh, each touch, each fleeting moment gains significance because it occurs within a story that will not pause or rewind.
Cloud initially interprets connection as something he must earn through strength or heroism. Aerith quietly dismantles this belief. She engages with him before he earns anything, before he resolves his past, before he becomes whole. In doing so, she introduces him to a radical idea: that being human is not about achieving completeness, but about allowing oneself to be seen in incompleteness.
The inevitable loss that defines their relationship becomes not a negation of their bond, but its crystallization. Aerith’s departure from Cloud’s life does not erase her influence. It transforms it into memory, guidance, and emotional inheritance. She becomes part of the deterministic chain shaping Cloud’s final identity. Her absence does not fracture him as Sephiroth’s violence once did. Instead, it strengthens his coherence. Cloud learns that love can persist as influence, that relationships continue shaping us even after physical presence disappears.
Aerith’s role in Cloud’s life ultimately teaches him that acceptance is not surrender to despair, but participation in continuity. She shows him that being human means existing within a web of relationships, sacrifices, and inevitabilities that cannot be escaped but can be honored. Where Sephiroth attempts to shatter fate through domination, Aerith moves gracefully within it, demonstrating that acceptance can be as powerful as rebellion.
Cloud’s transformation through Aerith’s influence becomes one of the most quietly profound arcs within the narrative. Through her, he learns that identity is not forged through isolation or conquest, but through connection, memory, and emotional inheritance. Aerith does not save Cloud by altering his destiny. She saves him by helping him understand that destiny does not diminish the value of love, loss, or existence itself.
Their relationship whispers a truth often drowned out by louder stories of heroism and control. That meaning is not found in rewriting fate, but in loving fully within it. Aerith walks toward her inevitable end with open hands, scattering kindness behind her like petals carried by wind. Cloud, left to follow the path shaped by her absence, carries those petals forward, not as reminders of loss, but as proof that beauty can exist even within the certainty of farewell.
And in that fragile, luminous exchange between them, Final Fantasy VII suggests that the most enduring form of resistance against despair is not power, but presence... the willingness to love knowing that every story, no matter how radiant, must one day reach its final page
AERITH & SEPHIROTH(Part 3 of 3)
Aerith Gainsborough and Sephiroth never share a traditional relationship, yet their connection forms one of the deepest and most mythic tensions within Final Fantasy VII. They stand across from one another not as rivals bound by personal history, nor as lovers shaped by emotional intimacy, but as two spiritual inheritors of the planet’s memory moving toward opposite interpretations of existence itself. Where Cloud and Sephiroth represent trauma and rebellion, and Cloud and Aerith embody tenderness and acceptance, Aerith and Sephiroth form a confrontation between stewardship and domination, between harmony with inevitability and defiance of it.
Both are children of forces older than themselves. Both are born touched by the Lifestream, shaped by knowledge not entirely their own, and burdened by inheritance that strips away the possibility of ordinary life. Yet the divergence of their paths reveals the central tragedy of their shared origin. Sephiroth learns he is not human and concludes that humanity is beneath him. Aerith learns she is not entirely human and chooses to love humanity more fiercely because of it.
Sephiroth’s existence begins in isolation disguised as greatness. He is engineered, elevated, and celebrated before he is allowed to understand himself. His identity is constructed through myth, weaponized expectation, and the silent horror of being designed rather than born. When he discovers the truth of his origin, he does not mourn the loss of belonging; he rejects the possibility of it altogether. His awakening becomes a fracture that reinterprets every relationship he has ever known as deception. If he was created to serve, then he will instead ascend. If he was meant to be controlled, he will seek control over existence itself.
Aerith, too, inherits knowledge that separates her from others. As the last Cetra, she carries the weight of planetary memory, ancestral responsibility, and a quiet understanding that her life will not follow the path of ordinary survival. But where Sephiroth experiences knowledge as contamination, Aerith experiences knowledge as connection. The voices she hears from the Lifestream do not isolate her from humanity. They deepen her empathy for it. She understands the fragile, cyclical nature of life and does not attempt to transcend it. She attempts to protect it.
Their relationship is defined not through dialogue or shared moments, but through inevitability. Sephiroth recognizes Aerith as a threat not because she opposes him with force, but because she embodies a worldview he cannot tolerate. Aerith represents acceptance of the planetary cycle, of life and death flowing through one another as necessary transformations. Sephiroth represents refusal. He seeks to seize the Lifestream, to reshape the cycle preventing mortality from limiting him, to become a singular consciousness dominating the natural rhythm of existence.
Their conflict is philosophical long before it becomes physical. Sephiroth views suffering as evidence that existence is flawed and must be rewritten. Aerith views suffering as part of the continuity that gives life its emotional and spiritual texture. Sephiroth attempts to bend the Lifestream into a weapon of ascension. Aerith listens to it as a living organism deserving protection. One treats the planet as a tool for transcendence. The other treats it as a living entity worthy of stewardship.
Sephiroth’s obsession with control emerges from the terror of being shaped by forces beyond his will. His godhood is not born from confidence, but from existential panic. If he cannot escape the truth that he was created, then he will recreate the universe itself in his image. Aerith, in contrast, accepts that she is shaped by forces older than her individual life. She does not interpret this as loss of freedom, but as belonging to something sacred. Where Sephiroth fights to become infinite, Aerith finds peace in participation.
The tragedy of their relationship lies in how closely their origins mirror each other. Both stand as bridges between humanity and the Lifestream. Both possess the capacity to guide confirmation of planetary fate. Yet Sephiroth interprets inheritance as ownership, while Aerith interprets it as responsibility. Their divergence becomes a reflection of humanity’s eternal tension between using power to dominate and using power to preserve.
In many ways, Aerith’s existence is a quiet rebuke to Sephiroth’s philosophy. She demonstrates that awareness of inevitability does not diminish the value of life; it intensifies it. Knowing her fate does not strip her of joy, humor, or affection. Instead, it deepens her commitment to experiencing and protecting those fleeting moments. Sephiroth cannot comprehend this because his identity is built on escaping amplifying vulnerability. Aerith’s strength is built upon embracing it.
Their relationship also reveals contrasting responses to loneliness. Sephiroth attempts to eliminate loneliness by becoming everything, dissolving individuality into his singular will. Aerith confronts loneliness by building relationships despite knowing they cannot last. She invests emotionally in connections she understands will end, trusting that their temporary nature does not invalidate their meaning. Sephiroth seeks permanence through domination. Aerith accepts impermanence through love.
Within the broader mythology of Final Fantasy VII, Sephiroth represents the temptation to transcend human limitation by rejecting humanity itself. Aerith represents the possibility that true transcendence occurs through deepening connection to life’s fragile continuity. Their opposition forms a mythological echo of countless spiritual narratives: the fallen angel who seeks godhood through rebellion and the spiritual steward who preserves creation through sacrifice.
Aerith’s eventual death becomes the crystallization of this philosophical conflict. Sephiroth interprets her sacrifice as removal of resistance. Yet in death, Aerith becomes inseparable from the Lifestream she protected, guiding it toward healing rather than destruction. Her absence becomes presence on a planetary scale. Sephiroth’s attempt to dominate existence only strengthens the continuity he seeks to control. Aerith does not defeat Sephiroth through direct confrontation. She defeats him by aligning with the very cycle he attempts to break.
Their relationship speaks to a profound human question about power and inheritance. When individuals discover they carry influence greater than themselves, they face a choice between domination and stewardship. Sephiroth demonstrates how trauma can transform power into obsession with control. Aerith demonstrates how awareness of inevitability can transform power into responsibility toward others.
Together, they represent two responses to the same existential revelation: that life is shaped by forces beyond individual will. Sephiroth answers this revelation with rebellion and conquest. Aerith answers it with acceptance and protection. Their conflict suggests that the survival of any living system depends not on those who seek to transcend its limitations, but on those willing to preserve its fragile, cyclical balance.
Aerith and Sephiroth never share moments of emotional intimacy, yet their connection resonates across the entire narrative as a spiritual axis upon which the story turns. They are the inheritors of the planet’s voice, speaking two contradictory truths. One declares that existence must be conquered to achieve freedom. The other whispers that freedom is found in participating fully within existence as it unfolds.
And in the quiet echo between those two voices, Final Fantasy VII reveals its deepest meditation on humanity: that the greatest power is not the ability to escape the cycle of life, but the courage to protect it, even when doing so requires accepting one’s place within it.
The Power of Connections - Cloud and His Friends
By DirkEZM
Why there are no coincidences, yet you can still influence your destiny through the community of connections.
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The Prerequisite and Beginning of the Path
We are born from Mother Earth (soul) and receive a body with a mind (will) capable of action and feeling. With birth, we also receive our instincts, passed down from generation to generation. Our parents raise us according to their ideals and experiences, giving us a moral compass—a vision of how the world should be, in their view. However, there is a problem with parental upbringing. When we receive these experiences, morals, and ideals, we are influenced by them. This influence also occurs when we come into conflict with other souls (people). We are forced into a form that perhaps should have been different (archetypes or chakra energy color - FF7). For we are not only given good things but also all the bad things our parents and society have instilled in us. Our will and our spirit are still far too susceptible to this influence. We become, so to speak, polluted and corrupted. Darkness can spread and cling to our hearts (souls) (lifestream). This is the root cause, the very essence of what we are made of, the formation of our character and personality.
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The Path Without Connection
So we are ready to set sail, with only our soul and spirit aboard our boat (body), and journey through the Lifestream with all that we have been given in terms of instinct, experience, ideals, and moral compass. Depending on what Mother Earth and Father Spirit have given us, we develop through our will in a specific direction across the ocean of the Lifestream, driven by our dreams and desires that we wish to share with other souls. Other souls (lives) swimming in this stream of souls are also guided by their own perceptions of the world, dreams, desires, and hopes. This represents the totality of the whole, our primal soul (Yogacara) or our primal crystal (Final Fantasy, the full facet of chakra energy: light, rainbow, transparent). Our will (spirit) shapes the effect of our personality and character on other souls within the great ocean of the Lifestream. Our "I" is capable of steering our boat in a direction against the current of the Lifestream. This, however, in turn causes renewed suffering and lingering darkness within the self. Our will struggles against fate in order to be healed in the lifestream, through the purification of the cycle of rebirth and death. It is, so to speak, the friction of the boat that "you" are, which leads to healing in the ocean of souls (spiritual energy). A chain of cause (soul, body, earth, yin, darkness) and effect (spirit, divine, heaven, yang, light) is formed in the great ocean. The will strives for the light and desires to be redeemed, but this takes time. The totality forms the conditions for each individual "I." Thus, for everything that exists in the world, there is a reason why and how the conditions arise at this particular moment. No coincidence, but only conditional destiny. From the subjectivity of the individual arises the objectivity of the whole.
The path of egoism leads to corruption, to the darkness of the soul, when one creates a river for oneself in the ocean of souls out of pain and suffering.
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How a solid construct, a body, comes into being
Through our birth, we receive a mind and a body. The body, with its senses (22-33), transforms the information within our mind into the world we know—our physical world. The magnetic attraction of pain and suffering causes us to sink ever deeper into our "self" (repressed) until deep into the earth, until eventually, as a form of self-protection, a second "self" arises, attempting to reach for the stars.
However, this cannot be the "real" world, as every living being perceives it differently because it has different senses. For example, a fish only knows the world underwater, and many living beings cannot even perceive colors. There is a plant (Boquila trifoliolata) that can see without seeing. It forms the exact same leaves as the plant next to it. Experiments have shown that even when a wall separates the replica plant from another normal plant, the same leaves develop. The scientists could only guess at the plant's sensory perception. That reminded me a lot of Cloud.
Everything that exists consists of spiritual energy. Constructs like rocks, water, and wind, etc., are pure, unconscious spiritual energy that has no consciousness, unlike living beings with a soul.
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Cloud's Illusions
The liberation of the senses, or in Cloud's case, the numbing of the senses, is very tempting for both a corrupted and a healthy mind. Hallucinogens, or more precisely, Cloud's dream (his false, dark "self"—the projection from the lifestream) (poisons—the mental poisons of Buddhism), are therefore so fascinating to the body because they free your mind from the clinging temptations of the earth. More precisely, from the corruption of the ocean of souls (lifestream). Your mind, in a sense, sees through the facade of the real world and glimpses, even if only briefly, what lies behind it (darkness). However, real dreams are the version that should be preferred because they show you the true picture of the world behind the facade (the transcendent world). This is not driven by the desire to see the "real" world, but by the mind searching for the truth of the "real" world (light) in the sense of self-knowledge. Hallucinogens (poisons) are themselves a temptation of the mind and harmful to the body. Ultimately, this happens because the dream originates in the dark subconscious and not in the conscious mind.
This is a superficial reference to the detachment from the senses. I know, of course, that in moderation it can be very helpful for body and mind, in the form of medical treatment.
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How relationships lead to inner peace
I like to remember a line from the movie K-PAX. Jeff Bridges asks, "How does your civilization know right from wrong?" Kevin Spacey replies, "Every child knows that." I find this so fascinating because what we were given by the Promised Land (Cetra) and God only transforms into evil and darkness over time. The soul of a child is pure (rainbow, light), weightless, and above all, selfless, like our creators. Out of love, compassion, and selflessness, they pass on the gift of the Goddess (of Earth) that they themselves once received. This triggers a deep inner feeling of satisfaction and happiness without suffering and pain, because: a "please" has always been worth more than a "thank you".
Over time and throughout the journey, each of Cloud's friends has given him this gift: honor, legacy, courage, trust, tolerance, strength, willpower, perseverance, love, compassion, honesty, reliability, devotion, understanding, acceptance, friendship, and hope (Chakra energy) (The inner values of souls in the lifestream) (the collective spiritual energy) (Rainbow).
Between Cloud and Tifa, a mutual projection arose on the water tower, unconsciously based on the image of a hero, in order to help each other in need.
Only those who experience the greatest fear can become heroes. Because the fear of losing a friend (love)(family) allows one to ascend into a transcendent world that bestows superhuman strength, courage, willpower and hope. This opposing, deeply rooted, energetic fear (subconscious) transforms in equal measure into rising power (consciousness). This connection with one's comrades (family) is the opposite power of fear, grief, and suffering. The mutual exchange of devotion, care, and love, however it is expressed, are the connections that cannot be broken, because everyone in the chain has built the bond with true selflessness. For only in this way can the inner feeling of happiness and contentment arise. The more one is willing to give, both physically and mentally, the more precious it will feel within. It feels as if one is detached from the Earth (Gaia), because one knows that even if someone should perish, one is not alone, because my friends follow me out of compassion and love. Failure is not possible because you already possess everything that is important (This also refers to the Cetra - promised land). Finding the light in one's soul and acceptance within is not achieved by rejecting the darkness, but only those who sail through it find the light of salvation (self-knowledge) at the end of the river.
The more willpower someone possesses, the higher the chance of healing within the Lifestream. Fighting against the flow creates an opposing energy in the subconscious, which can only be healed through willpower and discipline in the conscious mind, through honesty and self-discipline. This is the power of Tifa (yellow) and Cloud (blue) which, in conjunction with the lifestream, gives the green color of love, compassion and healing, and in which Cloud rediscovers his true "self" in order to connect his whole "self". The green color of the Lifestream, associated with Aerith, embodies the perfection of Yin and Yang, the balance of life. At the end of her journey, Aerith (Cetra), by accepting her fate, allowed the light (white materia) (Yang) into her mind. For her death is the will of the planet, which will ultimately save it. If she wished, she could enter the promised land, but out of compassion and love, she remains with Cloud and her friends. This makes Aerith transparent from both sides, heaven (Yang) and earth (Yin), allowing her to wander across the earth (Yin) as a transcendent being. She is physically dead (Yin, earth), but her spirit (Yang, divine) lives on. Aerith provides the tailwind for the boats and simultaneously creates an unbreakable connection between Cloud and her friends (pink ribbon).
Cloud truly loves Tifa (Yin, black) and Aerith (Yang, white) equally, because we, the players, are Cloud's consciousness. We see through his eyes and refuse to accept it, as the pain of choosing would be too great. Our dreams, desires, and memories (1997) reside within the player's consciousness, which is why there is an Aerith who lives and dies. We, the players, are the collective unconscious (lifestream) of our Earth, which loves both Tifa and Aerith and wishes that Aerith would survive this time. This establishes the connection between our reality and FF7.
Soon, Aerith goes to sleep (Advent Children) and dreams of rebirth, hoping to see "Him" (Cloud at the end of FF7) again (Remake). ∞
Beings like Sephiroth or Jenova will never understand the power of connection because they have closed themselves off from the lifestream, the cycle of life and death. The voices of souls cannot reach them. People who only ever take will never be able to give anything of value. They are eternally alone and lonely. As a result, hatred arises for all living things capable of giving and truly receiving without selfishness. Total destruction just to continue existing. Death for rebirth. They disembarked from their boat on a foreign land to poison the ocean of souls (the black lifestream) and create their own Promised Land (divine land).
Sephiroth is also a hero in a way, and he is extremely afraid. His fear is of losing what makes him who he is, what defines him, and his dignity. Therefore, he fights with all means. But throughout his life, ever since (before) his birth, he has only been abused, manipulated, exploited, admired, and abandoned. He could never truly enjoy this admiration, however, because he didn't want it, driven by a desire to be "normal" (Ever Crisis). His fear of non-existence is his strength. This strength, rooted in subjectivity (ego), is also his greatest enemy, for once it weakens against objectivity (the community of souls), no one will throw him a lifeline (connection). I must confess that I sometimes feel more sorry for Sephiroth than for Aerith, because he was burdened with so much even in the womb that no child in the world could bear this pain and suffering. He was denied the prerequisite for connection with others, for one must understand in order to truly receive.
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The Journey to the Promised Land
Light (the rainbow – the chain of red, orange, yellow, green, light blue, dark blue, and purple) is the fastest energy in the universe. It is an impulse. For light, there is no time, for there would be no space for it to expand into. Light is in constant flow, everywhere and at once (photon). The lifestream itself encompasses time and space. The spirit (will), the energy, strives to receive and solidify the light within its soul (photon – the information the spirit scans for). The soul longs to find God and enter the promised land. When a soul, through countless rebirths, manages to attain this state of selfless self and renounce hatred, delusion, and greed, it need only drift with the current of the ocean (lifestream) and it will be redeemed. The boat simply drifts down the river without the will (for the will of the spirit has understood, self-knowledge) trying to defy the current (selfless, hollow – self-reflection through meditation). One could say that the light flows through the soul at the speed of light, and since neither has mass, one is carried along. The soul is taken to the land of God (the promised land) and leaves the earth (Gaia).
Part of fate that cannot be changed are truths that apply to everything that exists. No matter how much one wants to swim against the current and fights against it, one cannot alter them. "Everything that exists must also end." For example, death or the air we breathe. We need food and water. We need connections to help us navigate the vast ocean of rivers so we don't get lost. The connection (rainbow) with other people keeps us on course and strengthens us with a tailwind (Aerith - green, wind). If we should stray from the current (Tifa - yellow, water), it is they who throw us the lifeline and take the lead in the river for us. This inevitably leads, if one is honest with oneself, to a force within the community of souls (boats) capable of defying fate. (End of FF7 - Holly - the command to defeat death and fate). This chain of boats (souls) in the community of connections (a whole) manages to defy every storm and fight against every clinging darkness in the soul until it eventually reaches the speed of light (disembodied, selfless, love, compassion) and the gates to the promised land of God open, for they realize their souls are light as a feather.
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The End
Words simply cannot express what I feel for FF7, as I always think of them more like solid objects, while feelings are like water. Feelings are rivers in the vast ocean, while words are the boats that sail upon it. Words are often misunderstood and misinterpreted because, unlike in the animal kingdom, they don't flow into you but rather cling to you like dirt and grime. Because one doesn't fall in love with something that one observes from the outside (senses), but with what lies behind the facade.
The reason I'm explaining this connection in such detail is that everything that exists in the universe, both psychological and physical, has developed, attracted, and connected through invisible threads. This is the only way we came into being. Why and how, we still don't know, only that it is so. Perhaps it is even the light itself that wants to live.
ps. The ------- symbols are there because I realized it had become way too long. :/
Why do relationships matter in Final Fantasy 7 Remake and Rebirth?
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Relationships are important as they help us to not only grow as people, but to hold us accountable, and to be there to help us up when we fall. Especially when life gets messy. It is why I value the importance of having a strong community to lean on and having someone you can confide in. Something that I was very grateful to have during the low points of my life when I had felt isolated and alone.
Throughout Remake and Rebirth we see the many different types of relationships through certain dynamics that happen between characters. As I experienced both of the games I found myself resonating with these dynamics the most are: Barrett and Marlene, Barrett and Cloud, Tifa and Aerith, Tifa and Marle. Why these in particular? Well for Barrett and Marlene it's because growing up, I had a close bond with my dad; and still do to this day. And while he wasn't perfect he still did his best to raise me and my brothers. We see that with Barrett, while he and Marlene may not be related by blood he still tries his best to be a good father to her despite his flaws. With Barrett and Cloud it was because I saw the two as like brothers and while they may not get along at first they do grow a bond throughout the games. Much like them, my brother, who is 27 now, and I didn't get along a bunch of times. We still loved each other. Though we didn't really start having that strong bond until my early adult life where he had seen me at my worst. With Tifa and Aerith it's because I didn't have any sisters; I was the only girl in a house full of boys. However, I did have a cousin who was three years older than who I saw as an older sister to me; as well as my old childhood friend who was also like a sister to me. It's why I enjoy seeing that sisterly bond being formed between the two of them. With Tifa and Marle, it's because while we don't see it in the games itself, one of the books shows how Marle had helped Tifa get on her feet. Much like how my grandma had helped me out during a rough situation that took place in my late teens up to my early adult life. She has always been there for me both before and after what happened and is practically like a mother to me. Just like how Marle sees Tifa like a granddaughter to her.
There were others that stood out to me, Barrett and Red XIII, Cloud and Tifa, Aerith and Cloud, but the ones that I mentioned before were the ones that stood out to me and were able to relate with on a personal level. Though I imagine I'll find more that will stand out to me whenever Part 3 finally drops.
While I have a myriad of ships under my belt insofar as my fanfiction history shows, one stands out to me the most: Genesis and Cloud. But Cat, you may ask, how does one ship something between two characters that never even meet? Lots and lots of conjecture, my friends. A lot has to do with a lot of understanding both characters and extrapolating from there how they would interact if it would ever happen.
The sole screenshot of these two in one scene - Cloud still in his coma and Genesis on his way to one.) Let’s start with Cloud, a mostly easy, but sometimes misinterpreted character. Once a kid determined to prove himself to the village that scorned him, then developing into a determined young man, yet one who struggles with survivor’s guilt and depression after the traumas he’s been through. He’s an introvert, but one able to be pulled out of his shell by friends he trusts. Then there’s Genesis, a frequently maligned character. Once a kid with dreams of heroism, whose jealousy and pride was his downfall while raging against the very company that caused his existence; then to be followed by healing at the hands of the Goddess Minerva herself before sealing himself away in case of need by the Planet. After awakening, he has no reason left to rage with Shinra gone, and would then likely find himself very curious about the unassuming man who had now thrice bested his now dead former friend. Nd thus would set up a meeting between the two, after the secret ending of Dirge of Cerberus where Genesis spirits Weiss’ unconscious form off into the night, the latest canon point in the FFVII timeline (aside from Nanaki and his cubs 500 years later anyway). One man forgotten by history (one could say scrubbed from it, given Shinra’s treatment of both him and Angeal after they’re announced as KIA) and one who never flaunts his Hero status.
I’d think, initially Genesis would be taking that curiosity and poking the bear, so to speak, in regards to Cloud and wanting to test his strength. How could this shorty of a man have beaten Sephiroth multiple times, when he and Angeal combined couldn’t back in Shinra? Which then would lead to a thorough ass kicking with Cloud as the winner and Genesis’ interest growing even more despite that, ultimately leading to him being his own more benign form of a Cloud Botherer. Cloud would be annoyed at first, probably going in for the duel to maybe shut Genesis up and get him to go away... and learning very quickly he’s more stubborn than even Roche was when it came to wanting his attention. Genesis probably quotes Loveless enough at Cloud that makes the latter at least kind of interested (as he did that VR performance at the Gold Saucer, regardless of the date) so as to actually grasp the source material. Eventually, through Genesis’ persistence and Cloud’s inability to say no to persistence, they do form a bond, first one of begrudging on Cloud’s end, but eventually to a mutual bond, one that could then deepen into romance on a long enough time scale. There’s a lot for them to talk about, what dreams of being a hero meant and how they fell from each of those heights in different ways. Those they’ve lost, and how they blame themselves for it (although I’d argue Genesis did actually cause his losses, but that’s another essay for another day), and sharing stories of those lost, until they finally turn to getting to know more about each other, and maybe healing from those losses together. Is a lot of this conjecture as I gleefully imagine Genesis yapping while Cloud is annoyed nearby? Yes, yes it is. But it’s still a fun ship with a lot of great fanfic both of the post-Dirge variety but also of the canon divergent starting in CC variety and Alternate Universes and everything in between. Stepping outside the confines of canon can be a fun romp finding new connections that canon seems more interested in avoiding ever happening - and opens one’s mind to the possibilities.
Final Fantasy Relationships
By J.I.
The strength of the Final Fantasy series to me has always been the character writing, and
Final Fantasy 7 has some of the best. So, it is difficult for me to choose a single relationship on
which to focus, but after some reflection there is one that resonates with me on a more personal
level than the others, and that is the friendship – perhaps even brotherhood – between Zack and
Cloud. More specifically, I am interested in exploring Zack’s sacrifice at the end of Crisis Core
and what it is we owe to those who are no longer with us. Cloud would not be the man he is in
the main game if not for Zack. Of course, Cloud wouldn’t be in the game at all if Zack hadn’t
saved him from the lab in Nibelheim and carried him to Midgar, then sacrificed himself to defeat
those sent to intercept them. In Zack’s final moments, he passes on the famous Buster Sword to
Cloud; an item that’s in game descriptions states that it “has inherited the hopes of those who
fight.”
It isn’t just the sword either, as Cloud takes on a sort of persona of Zack. He acts more
confidently, more like the lethal, heroic SOLDIER he dreamed of being, but Zack actually was.
The game suggests that there is something more metaphysical to this; that Cloud has literally
been transferred some of Zack’s memories and feelings. Whatever the case, Cloud aspires to be
more like his friend and less like himself – the young man too embarrassed to take off his helmet
in front of the girl he promised he’d be a hero for, and that speaks to me. Some personal
background that will help illuminate why I am touched by this: I am named after my paternal
grandfather whom I never got the chance to meet because he was a law enforcement officer who
made the ultimate sacrifice. As such, I have spent considerable time ruminating on what it means
to be, like Cloud, somebody’s living legacy. And I think that this is relevant to everybody –
Cloud and I have very direct cases, but, like it or not, we are all to an extent the product of the
lives of those who came before us.
A man I never got the chance to meet or know has played a large role in my life, not just
because of how his death shaped my dad, but because I have spent more than a little time
considering what kind of man I should be to live up to my grandfather’s name. We all do this,
some to a greater than extent than others. It doesn’t always go in the positive direction either –
sometimes we live in spite of the desires and memories of our forebearers. In Final Fantasy 7
Cloud struggles to do just this with regards to Spehiroth whom his life (and Zack’s) is
inextricably intertwined with. There is a perpetual give and take between us, those that proceed
us and those that will come after us.
This is a humbling thing, and I will challenge the reader to take some time and reflect on
it. What legacy have you inherited, and what can you do to live in fulfillment of it (as with Cloud
and Zack) or in redemption of it (as with Cloud and Sephiroth)? What legacy can you leave for
future generations? The paths of our lives start far before us and continue far beyond us. The
triumphs and failures encompassed in this are not always of our making, but they often become
our responsibility, and we should have the appropriate respect for that.
Friends till the end
By CaptainJediPiggyPrime
The friendship that I gravitate towards the most in the series is Cloud and Tifa. There aren't enough words I can write to showcase that. But I think the main thing I think of when I think of the two of them is healing.
I really love this quote from Zara Abrams, a freelance science writer who primarily covers psychology, has to say about friendships. She writes “People who have friends and close confidants are more satisfied with their lives and less likely to suffer from depression. (Choi, K. W., et al., The American Journal of Psychiatry, Vol. 177, No. 10, 2020)(a). On the other hand, when people are in low social connection, because of isolation, loneliness or poor quality relationships, they face an increased risk of premature death.” (b)
I think about how many times in both Remake and Rebirth, we see Cloud really isolating himself and not allowing anyone in. Not that he’s ever at the point of premature death, but he does show signs of not really wanting to do anything but one thing that gives him purpose. After Zack’s death, he lost that purpose and his mind was so scrambled that he basically became Zack. He became that stoic soldier who could do nothing but his duties.
I feel like the turning point for Cloud in all of Final Fantasy 7 Rebirth was when Tifa had just woken up from her ordeal with the Lifestream Guardian Whale. She recalls a moment when she went after her mom’s spirit and almost hurt herself. She explains that Cloud was a hero back then. But Cloud doubts himself. He even goes on to share his fear with her. She is able to beautifully use their close friendship to reassure him. He doesn’t have to try hard around her and when he falters, she’s right there to pick him up.
And in some small way, I even see that with Tifa. While she was never truly isolated from society, she definitely was alone and I think finding Cloud after all that time was what set her on her own path of healing. I feel like in the quiet way she doesn’t fight back or in the way that she quietly just does whatever is required of her. But when she finds Cloud, she lets out that past self again and isn’t afraid to speak her mind even to him. She allows him to see more of her vulnerable side, the side of her that’s scared, the one who is unsure of everything. And Cloud’s quiet presence helps her to process and move on.
They both help heal each other by gently showing each other that their past does not define them. Tifa does that in a way that says I’m okay with who you are. And Cloud does it by opening up to her and shows her that she doesn’t have to be afraid of speaking up. And that’s true healing. And that’s a friendship that lasts till the end is one that helps them endure the worst.
Karmel W Choi, Ph.D, Murray B. Stein, M.D., M.P.H, Kristen M. Nishimi, Ph.D., Jonathan R.I. Coleman, Ph.D., Chia-Yen Chen, ScD. and more, 2020
The Science of Why Friendships Keep Us Healthy (b)
Zara Abrams, The Science of Why Friendships Keep Us Healthy, 2023
By Aqua0185
Relationships are a defining element of Final Fantasy VII, setting it apart from many other entries in the series. What makes this story resonate so deeply is not just its plot or worldbuilding, but the emotional dependence and connection between its characters. Nearly everyone in the game is either counting on someone else or serving as someone’s emotional anchor. Rather than focusing on a single pairing, the true emotional core of the game lies in the three-person dynamic between Cloud Strife, Tifa Lockhart, and Aerith Gainsborough. Together, these three are not only the primary characters of the story but also the emotional foundation that allows each of them to grow. In many ways, they reflect real-life relationships, those special people who bring us out of our shells and help us become the best versions of ourselves.
Cloud and Aerith share a relationship that is tender and transformative. At the beginning of the game, Cloud is aloof, emotionally distant, and burdened by deep internal struggles. His guarded personality acts as a barrier between himself and the world. Aerith, however, with her playful curiosity, warmth, and gentle flirtation, slowly breaks down those walls. Brick by brick, she challenges his emotional isolation. Cloud’s cool demeanor presents a puzzle for Aerith, one she willingly embraces. At the same time, she depends on him as her protector, and through that reliance, her feelings for him deepen. Their bond is not defined solely by romantic passion, but by affectionate and comforting love. Aerith embodies a kind of agape love, selfless, universal, and compassionate. Her spirit radiates care for nature, strangers, and the less fortunate. That light is what draws Cloud toward her and allows him to soften.
Cloud and Tifa, on the other hand, share a bond rooted in shared history. Their connection stems from childhood memories, teenage trauma, and a promise that ties their lives together. Though they were not inseparable as children, their hometown tragedy and mutual loss create an understanding that no one else can fully share. Tifa’s love for Cloud feels unconditional. She stands by him through his mental fragility, willing to protect and save him no matter the cost. In return, Cloud provides Tifa with familiarity and stability, something precious in a world where she has lost nearly everything. Their shared pain forms a bond that feels enduring and unbreakable. Only they can truly understand what the other has endured.
The friendship between Tifa and Aerith shines especially brightly in both Final Fantasy VII Remake and Rebirth. Unlike the original game, Remake and Rebirth allows their relationship to blossom into something sisterly and heartfelt. They confide in one another, share laughter, and support each other emotionally. Their closeness makes Aerith’s death even more devastating. With Cloud struggling mentally in Rebirth, Tifa is left feeling more alone than ever.
Overall, these three relationships resonate with me because they reveal the calmness,tenderness, and pure, lighthearted innocence that love can offer. In a story filled with darkness and heartbreaking moments, their bond shines as a steady source of warmth and hope. Amid the chaos and emotional devastation, their connection becomes a necessary light, one that softens the pain and reminds us why the fight to protect one another truly matters.
Avalanche Besties: Tifa and Jessie
By AfroCloud
There is one relationship that defined Tifa during her initial years in Midgar. The one she
shares with Jessie Raspberry. Both women saw each other for the first time, when Tifa and
her boss to had make twenty-two steamed buns for the Jessie, Biggs and Wedge.
Several days later, Jessie formally met Tifa when she heading home from work. Later, Jessie
saved Tifa from a Wall Market tout with a boot to the cheek. Jessie got Tifa to safety while
the man recovered. To ensure Tifa’s safety, Jessie escorted Tifa home.
At Tifa’s place, Jessie asked her a thought-provoking question, “Is there something that’s
keeping you here? Tifa told Jessie her tragic story of the Nibelheim incident, her recovery
and her debt.
While telling her story, Tifa begun to question what she was doing with her life. Why wasn’t
she getting to the bottom of the Nibelheim’s incident? Jessie, touched by Tifa’s tale, gave
Tifa comfort by telling her she’s doing the best she can with her current life. She reassured
Tifa that she needs to play the long game regarding justice for her father and herself.
The two girls formed a friendship by hanging two nights a week. But companionship,
comfort and safety weren’t the only things that Jessie offered to Tifa. Jessie invoked Tifa to
question her purpose in her new life. Later, Jessie would offer Tifa even more precious
things: happiness, growth and a purpose.
“When one falls, many prevail! Together, we can take on the world!” An Avalanche’s creed
spoken by Jessie. On her seventeenth birthday, the Avalanche trio celebrated Tifa’s
birthday.
During the festivities, the trio took Tifa to a Planetology showing. But this wasn’t just an
intro to Planetology. This was Tifa’s introduction to Avalanche. Her path towards finding the
truth and justice. Through planetology, Jessie believed and comforted Tifa that her father
and friends within the planet and herself.
After disappearing for a month, an injured Jessie sought Tifa’s help. Tifa figured out that
Jessie was from Avalanche. Regardless, she helped get her new friend to her doctor. After
getting some first aid for her injury, Jessie stay away and left Tifa a letter that she was laying
low for the time being.
Jessie’s absence was getting to Tifa. Tifa decided to seek out her friend. Little did both of
them know, Jessie was about to change Tifa’s life through connections. Her search for
Jessie led to a reunion with Marle, her future with Seventh Heaven, and her first meeting
Barret and Marlene.
When Tifa finally reunited with Jessie, they were being hunted by Shinra troops. Barret
saved them. This led to the birth of their Avalanche cell with Barret as the leader.
Thanks to Jessie, Tifa was able to foster a new life. A life filled with growth, fulfillment and
happiness. Thus, Tifa could begin a journey to find her truth and justice.
Tifa and Jessie’s relationship speaks to me because I was in similar situation with work and
debt. Thankfully, I have found friends and mentors to help me get off this stagnant life.
Thanks to those friends and mentors, I have found growth, fulfillment and happiness
through martial arts, art and design and now content creation.
Like Jessie, my friends gave me a path filled with growth, purpose and connections.
Through Jessie, Tifa was able to forged new relationships with Marle, Biggs, Wedge, Barret
and Marlene. Jessie and Tifa’s bond taught Tifa an important life lesson on the ground floor.
“It’s not what you know, but who you know.” An important life lesson she passes on to
Cloud. As the players controlling Cloud, we also receive this lesson as well.
Sources:
Nojima, Kazushige. Traces of Two Pasts. Final Fantasy VII Remake. 2024. Traces of Tifa. Pgs:
120 - 137, 144 – 189.
Final Fantasy VII Remake Chapter 3
CELESTIALBUDDIES:
By CELESTIALBUDDIES
The relationship that is closest to my heart in Final Fantasy VII is that of Tifa and Aerith's. The two young women get along nearly instantly upon meeting each other, and their friendship deepens into a very close bond during the story.
It is no wonder that Tifa and Aerith become fast friends. Despite growing up very far away from each other, they both have experienced similar trauma in their early lives - losing their mother. Additionally, neither of them had true friends to count on until close to the events of the game, so the experience of loneliness is also something they share. In many ways, the two women were forced to grow up too quickly.
Besides their common trauma, Tifa and Aerith have personalities that merge well. Aerith, with her bubbly and outgoing nature, helps the more reserved Tifa come out of her shell. She laughs and jokes around significantly more around Aerith, truly feeling comfortable with her. On another hand, Tifa brings quiet compassion and understanding into Aerith's life, and is always up to help out Aerith who's gotten used to having to fend off for herself since she was a child. Aerith carries a heavy burden on her shoulders, one that no one else can relieve her of, but Tifa is ready to support her whenever possible.
They have a similar type of anger towards Shinra and the injustice of the world. They mostly keep it hidden, but we see the mask crack in some scenes, such as Tifa coming to terms with the fall of the Sector 7 plate and when Aerith is talking to Cloud about Professor Hojo on the beach. Despite Aerith being a more outgoing person, she and Tifa both keep the majority of their inner world concealed and close to the chest.
They share countless heartwarming moments -- whether it be them planning a shopping trip, hanging out in Costa del Sol or ganging up to tease Cloud. They get the chance to act like kids, even, giggling and sneaking off to talk about boys. Experiencing carefree, youthful moments like these can be truly healing for someone who was forced mature fast due to trauma.
The two of them fit so well together, that I would even go so far as to argue they can be considered platonic soulmates. However, their relationship is also ultimately a tragic one. Tifa's reaction to Aerith's death was always the most heartbreaking one to me. In the original scene, she runs away, crying. I remember seeing it for the first time and being taken aback by Tifa showing such strong emotions. She is a rather reserved person, after all. And the line in Advent Children that never fails to make me cry is something Tifa says, looking at a drop of water from Aerith's rain: "Somehow, I knew you were there. Thank you." Even after death, Aerith still has a connection to Tifa.
As a woman, Tifa and Aerith's friendship is very important to me. It is rare to see such well-written female friendships in media in general, and this is especially true when it comes to video games. They truly adore each other, despite both of them having complicated feelings about the same man. Many fans push this narrative that they are "rivals", I personally don't see that at all. They're friends before anything else. Having experienced many beautiful friendships myself, I can pinpoint moments from my own life where I've felt like they seem to feel while giggling and plotting things together. It's such an accurate portrayal of women cherishing one another. The tragedy they eventually face reminds me to tell my friends how much they mean to me.
TIFA AND AERITH
By John
The bonds we create during childhood can become the foundation of our
personalities. Boys can inspire each other the urge to compete and to engage in
group activities like sports, but the relationship between girls focuses on building
self esteem and a loyal connection in deep levels. Sharing Secrets, Talking about
boys...Tifa and Aerith share the same lack of this kind dynamic in their earlier
days. Both journeys serve as an undenying parallel of two people who were
lonely, never able to fully be open with others. Their relationship is one of the
most heartwarming friendships I have ever seen in gaming.
Tifa grew up surrounded by boys who viewed her as nothing more than a
possible romantic partner. Her mother died when she was 8, making the
neighborhood mothers the only ones to teach things that a woman should learn,
not what Tifa needed, until Zangan came by. Years later, Nibbelheim was
destroyed, her father murdered by Sephiroth and she saw herself once again
alone in the middle of the slums trying to rebuild all of the things she lost. But
even in Avalanche, she was not complete.
When we start looking at Aerith's own childhood traumas, things start
getting even more similar. Professor Gast, the flower girl`s father, was killed
before the girl could recognize him as such. Her days after were spent inside the
Shinar tower, having to bear having her mother Ifalna being taken away everyday
and returning worse than before thanks to Hojo experiments. After escaping, it
was not relief that waited for them in the sector 5`s train station, but even more
sadness as Ifalna gave her last breath, making Aerith the last living cetra, just as
Tifa was, in a way, the last survivor of her town. But her heritage was to be hidden
from everyone. She couldn`t leave the sector nor Midgar. But even the steel sky
was just a bigger prison than the walls of their old room.
They both embodied a role of denying their wishes to help others by either
joining Avalanche or taking care of the parentless kids in sector five. Just as the
official soundtrack says, Aerith and Tifa were “waiting to be found” by an equal
who could truly understand the pain, the loss that life made them endure.
Its truly amazing that they both defy what is usually expected by a pair of
woman protagonists that are tied to the main protagonist. Actually, when they get
together, they start to outright ignore Cloud a little bit. Aerith sensitive heart is
immediately able to notice Tifa’s lingering anxiety related to the haunting
possibility of the plate fall and she reassures her, not once, but three times
throughout the section. In the train graveyard, Aerith relieves her childhood
loneliness while being preyed on by Eligor. While the previously mentioned
soundtrack was playing as the worst memories of Aerith were flooding, Tifa
breaks through the illusion and finally responds to the music with an “We found
you”. This kind of exchange is repeated in the end when Tifa pulls her out of the
Whispers’ grasp, preventing Aerith from losing herself again.
But, it’s in REBIRTH that lies my favorite part of this duo, when they finally
open themselves to each other. Tifa reveals to Aerith all the truth from five years
ago even knowing that she doesn't possess future knowledge anymore. She
confides in Aerith the most painful secret she could never tell Cloud, even though
he is her last tie to Nibbelheim. Later on, Tifa encourages her to seek Zack’s
family and Gongaga, supporting her when the tragic news falls upon her.
Every moment that they are on screen is a joyful and healthy alternance of
Aerith living her many “first times” journey and Tifa delighting in having a best
friend that she can have fun without any expectations or second intentions. As
someone who grew much like Tifa, I didn’t have true friends until I was out of high
school. Looking at their journey is like seeing a reflection of myself, and
reminiscing of the time I was just as lonely as the last cetra and the self-taught
girl of Nibbelheim.
Cloud & Aerith
By K
In the Final Fantasy 7 R universe, why do relationships matter? For me, it’s witnessing one party member struggle and seeing how another provides support. In real-life Square Enix debuted billboards featuring the Final Fantasy 7 R cast advocating mental help. One displays, “Friends Support Friends” in smaller font, “Reach out, talk, connect”.
As for the pairing I resonated with, it's Cloud and Aerith.
Cloud is perceptive when Aerith needs reassurance and Cloud’s calm demeanor sways Aerith to share vulnerabilities.
Aerith helps Cloud soften his mood and her touches help to stabilize him.
Early on we witness Cloud’s cold and selfish personality. His “Get help” reply to Barret and pressure for a large Gil payment.
Comparison point, in REMAKE Chapter 3. Cloud has a no nonsense, worker-mode demeanor when accompanied by childhood friend, Tifa to install water filters; where in REMAKE Chapter 8, as Aerith guides Cloud from the Church interior to the rooftops; Cloud’s mood softens instantly through Aerith’s antics. He makes quips, they bond quickly despite having newly met.
At the half-way mark, village children hire Cloud for aid. Cloud offers 1 Gil for his hire payment; this demonstrates his changing outlook. Near chapter’s end. Aerith, “…It’s not like you’d believe me after all.” Cloud: “...Probably not.” Cloud turns around. Suddenly he feels remorseful. Faces her. Cloud, “Tell me anyway.” This action speaks volumes. He weighed the choice to ignore or to support and chose to support and reassure Aerith. Aerith suggests giving up, Cloud, “…you’re no quitter.” Aerith mentions, today’s special.
Cloud, “What’s so special about it?” Aerith giggles, walks away. That “today” was special because Aerith and Cloud successfully bonded. Cloud addresses flowers, “Learn to talk to her.” He desires to continue deepening that bond with Aerith.
REBIRTH Chapter 10. In Cosmo Canyon, Aerith delivers a speech by firelight. “…I was never going to be normal… that much was clear.” Suddenly she pauses—vulnerable. Scans the crowd, locking eyes with Cloud. She could’ve sought anyone but chose Cloud. Cloud’s response is player-choice. Were given three choices total with two being supportive-coated; ‘smile at her’ and ‘encourage her.’ No matter the choice, Aerith with Cloud’s input, now has motivation to complete her speech. Aerith appreciated being reassured by Cloud.
Cloud’s calm demeanor. In REBIRTH Chapter 6. Aerith and Cloud stroll on the shore during sunset. Aerith feels comfortable enough with Cloud to share her vulnerabilities. She informs him she’s been suppressing dark, ugly thoughts related to ill acts of her past. She desires his feedback. Cloud, “. . .whatever you decide, I’m with you.” He continues to reassure her.
Ways Aerith softens Cloud. REMAKE Chapter 9, Aerith and Cloud navigate through a ruined path. They use a Robot Arm to overcome. Aerith raises both hands; she desires a high-five. Cloud is confused. Aerith is patient. They push on. Cloud softens and smiles after Aerith says, “So, do you moonlight as a crane operator or something?”. Reaching road’s end, the two connect successfully in high-five. Also, in REMAKE Chapter 9; Cloud’s unsure of dancing on stage. Its mentioned earlier in the game that Cloud doesn’t dance however noticing Aerith’s bubbling excitement in the audience, he takes center stage. Aerith has this knack to get Cloud out of his shell. She gave Cloud confidence.
In REMAKE Chapter 8, Black Cloak #2 grabs Cloud’s hand. Cloud imagines Sephiroth. Cloud panics briefly the regains control. Black Cloak #2 shuffles away. The camera focuses on Cloud’s trembling hand; Aerith puts her hands over Cloud’s. Camera pans up to Aerith. Concerned expression. Aerith, “Cloud? Get it together. Come on.” He needed aid, she provided though her gentle touch. REMAKE Chapter 14. If the player chose Aerith during night-visitation; Apparition Aerith caress her hand to Cloud’s face; her desire, comfort him despite the absence of touch. I thought that was a striking beautiful moment.
REBIRTH Chapter 13, REBIRTH Chapter 13, Cloud falls under Sephiroth’s spell. Aerith, “Whatever happens, I’m here for you.” She gives the Black Materia to Cloud. Minutes later; Cloud’s mind is stimulated with visuals of every moment he experienced with Aerith; this flooding of memories breaks through Sephiroth’s spell. Beautiful.
There’s something special between these two characters and I'm glad I could share.
The Playground
By WS
I’ve always loved games like FFVII and other JRPGs because I like thinking about the stories they tell. For me the joy in returning to these games is not so much due to the epic grandeur of their narratives--though that is part of the appeal, to be sure--but because of the small moments they portray: interactions between characters in the party, and conversations with folks out in the world; opportunities for exploring the landscapes, listening to the musical themes weave in and out, figuring out secrets and overcoming challenges, or meditating on mysteries that have no single answer but which are all the more conducive to sparking philosophical consideration for that very reason.
The playground scene in Midgar is one of my favorite examples in FFVII and its Remakes of what I love about video games. The conversation between Cloud and Aerith, and later Tifa, is all the more powerful for what is left unsaid, which the game invites us to read in between the lines. For those who’ve played the original, first of all, this includes memories, no doubt nostalgic, of the scene as we first experienced it, and the changes and continuities alike that come through in the remake’s portrayal. As it happens, memory and identity are key themes closely bound up with the relationships between the characters in FFVII. Their own continuity, change, deepening, and fleshing out is one of the most important elements of the Remake and the discourse surrounding it.
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Detail screenshot from around 2:28 into Prof’s playthrough on twitch; note contrast between the spotlight on the left and lamposts on the right. I love the touch of the moths around the lamp <3
The most important change to the dialogue here comes in the form, typical of the Remake as a whole, of bringing to the foreground the gaps and fractures in Cloud’s memory and identity which are implicit in the original. As Aerith responds to his question about the first guy she loved, we see her mouth move, but no text or voice comes through the static distortion hitting Cloud at that moment. In the original, she says “it doesn’t matter,” though of course it does; here, whether she says that or the name Zack, Cloud and by extension the player is unable to hear and process it. Emphasized in both, though in the Remake to a greater and more intimate degree with Aerith’s gazing into his eyes, is Cloud’s similarity to her first boyfriend, also a Soldier 1st class.
Though Tifa, glimpsed dressed up in the confines of a chocobo-pulled carriage, comes into the scene last (and the cutscene is broken up in Remake, while continuous in the original), in a way she is already present in our minds as well as Cloud’s. The situation, his sitting up high beside a girl he cares about and who cares about him, nearly mirrors that of the reminiscence scene with a younger Cloud on the water tower in Nibelheim with Tifa. Cloud’s promise to come to her aid is referenced directly in the Remake in Aerith’s calling on him to go after Tifa and help her against the Don. Just as Aerith is thinking about Zack, Cloud is thinking of Tifa. This is not to invalidate their relationship with one another, which is sensitively developing, but it is to acknowledge that all their interactions are tinged with a nostalgia, whether recognized or not, for someone else. In turn, this beautifully mirrors, for me and many players of the original game, our relationship to the Remake series.
Just as in my first essay I wanted to say more about the possibilities of appealing to the role of guerrilla art, such as a version of the play Loveless, in breaking through the Shinra-controlled media’s censorship and disinformation, exposing high-ranking bureaucrats up to and including the President’s involvement in Don Corneo’s den of vice; so here, the natural next step in the argument would be to look closely at the incredibly interesting sequence of Wall Market itself… However, space does not permit! So I’ll just note in passing that FFVII’s representation of a playground within the video game--and the way this is foregrounded in the opening cinematic of Intergrade--puts it in some very illustrious company. Compare the core image of Kurosawa’s masterpiece Ikiru, the sepia-toned loop of memory in Xenogears of Fei playing with his mother, and the glimpses of Ness’ memories in EarthBound (Mother 2) unlocked by reaching each of the “Your Sanctuary” locations and recording their melodies. The deep meaning of play as a kind of freedom within self-imposed limits comes through these self-reflective representations, no less than in the plays-within-the-play of Shakespeare or Chaucer’s nested levels of humor and pathos in his Tales... But that’s a story for another time!
Tifa & Aerith - Mutual Pursuit of Closure
Tifa and Aerith undeniably represent the heart of Final Fantasy 7. Their presence anchors Cloud's psyche and provides emotional support to the party. The two females are commonly pitted against each other in fandom spaces. However, rather than being portrayed as rivals, the Final Fantasy 7 Remake and Rebirth storylines emphasize their friendship. They also mutually encourage each other in the pursuit of closure: mysteries related to their bonds.
Tifa and Aerith's moments of friendship and bond-forming are as crucial to the story of Final Fantasy 7 as the player's choices of Cloud's dialogue. Their friendship is thoughtfully baked into the narrative. Don Corneo's mansion provided the first moment of bonding through kicking Corneo's cronies to the curb. They recognize a mutual need to ally themselves with one another to escape the mansion. Their partnership further evolved as they joked around with Cloud as their pack chocobo in the train graveyard.
In Rebirth, their bonding moments are made more apparent. With the addition of Traces of Two Pasts by Nojima, readers learn how the girls shared their pasts and talked about boys (or first loves). This conversation is concluded on the cruise ship. They also partnered up in the Costa del Sol mini-games. More importantly, the pursuit of closure is brought to the forefront of their interactions with Cloud.
The APA Dictionary of Psychology defines closure as "the act, achievement, or sense of completing or resolving something. In psychotherapy, for example, a client achieves closure with the recognition that they have reached a resolution to a particular psychological issue or relationship problem." Additionally, "need for cognitive closure" is the "desire or motivation to have a definitive answer or knowledge instead of uncertainty or doubt."
In Aerith's case, she has not heard definitively the fate of Zack Fair, her first love from Crisis Core. While we can safely assume she knew of his fate from her connection to the Lifestream and the Planet, she also connected Cloud to Zack during their playground discussion and sought information from Cloud. The waters are further muddied by Cloud's foggy recollections in Nibelheim and the meeting with Zack's parents.
Cloud and Tifa made a promise to each other when they were children. The pair parted, not seeing each other for seven years in Tifa's memory and five in Cloud's. Ever Crisis revealed that Tifa reunited with Cloud in the Midgar slums when he was mako poisoned. During the flashback sequence in Kalm, Tifa must reconcile her memories with Cloud's. Hidden from both of them at the time is that he hid from his childhood friend in the guise of a Shinra trooper.
When learning about Zack from Cloud, Tifa is considerate and offers to tell Aerith. Cloud's memory is muddled, so he relays a warped reality. Zack died, but not from a bridge collapse. Aerith would be able to sort out what is right from wrong. The women also talked previously in Gongaga.
Despite being envious of their normal childhoods, Aerith still supported Tifa and Cloud as they climbed Mount Nibel with Yuffie. Earlier in the story, she listens to Tifa in Kalm when her friend is confused by the storytelling.
Their bonds are crucial to their understanding of each other's individual personalities and needs. Without a framework formed around friendship, they would not have supported each other's personal objectives. They are secure in their present bonds with the rest of the party and are not envious when they split to reach a goal or have fun. They keep the party grounded through their connections to the people on the ground floor and the Planet.References in order of appearancehttps://dictionary.apa.org/closure(2007). Need for closure. In R. F. Baumeister, K. D. Vohs (Eds.) Encyclopedia of social psychology (pp. 611-611). SAGE Publications, Inc., https://doi.org/10.4135/9781412956253.n365Ever Crisis video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67n93WZ_z18